I know it had killed my family that i wasn’t spending time with them for this New Years, our annual tradition of going up to our lake house and waiting for our Sirius satellite radio to tell us that it had reached midnight, (because it is the only way we will ever truly know it’s midnight). But I have decided to make new traditions in my life for other things, why not for new years.
So after hanging out with some of my very good and close friends I had noticed a much different way of celebrating the holidays. Just the feeling of being with other people on New Years made me feel different.
Of course once the ball dropped, there was a mass of noise and excitement. Nearly every face in the room was lit up with joy for the new year. I can’t blame em, I am excited too. Unfortunately, although I was able to be my good friends I care for, I was unable to be with the one person I care for the most. I know I’m going to see her in 3 days, but I really miss Maggie.
But I did notice how important music is to my friends, that I never would have guessed they took it. My good friend Larry and Kyle deliberately listened to their iPods before the ball dropped so they made sure that the last song of that year was not Lady Gaga’s New Years performance. I found that very outstanding. But of course, the person that gives so much more meaning to everything he sees, Paul took his music listening to a new level.
As we drove home, he explained what his normal tradition is for New Years. He decides a new song to summarize his year in general. He listened to the song he made for last year before the ball dropped, and played his new song after it had reached midnight. Very deep.
So he explained what his song was and why he chose it. I found it to be very beautiful and deep.
So with Paul’s “philosophy” in my head I had my normal conversation with myself, as I normally do when I drive, when it struck me. The song that was playing on Sirius became my song for the year. I have been playing it on repeat as writing this post and found, serenity, in the song.
So for everyone I spent New Years with, for those I hadn’t, from my family, to my old friends, to my new friends, to my wonderful girlfriend, to the dysfunctional family I call SIRA, I want to thank you for how stellar you had made my year.